Safe & respectful
Wanting a child is personal. We keep things calm, clear and respectful.
No sex, no ‘natural insemination’
This is a place for donation without sex: home insemination with a cup and syringe, treatment at a licensed clinic, or co-parenting. Asking for or offering sex or ‘natural insemination’ (NI), or sending sexual messages, is not allowed. We suspend profiles that do this. Received a request like that? Please report it from the profile.
- Block and report on every profile
- Clear rules: serious family plans, no flirting
- No buying or selling of sperm, and no payment through us
- We never collect, store, test, post or deliver sperm, and you shouldn't either: in the UK that needs an HFEA licence
- Open donation: your child has the right to know where they come from
- We're not a clinic and don't give medical or legal advice
Before you meet anyone, read Known sperm donors and UK law and the meeting tips in Finding a known sperm donor. In an emergency, call 999.